You’ve got genital herpes: how to tell that special someone

Wednesday, June 17 2009

You’ve met a special person you have, or want to have, a relationship with, but you don’t know how to let that person know you have genital herpes. You don’t want to face the possibility of losing someone you’ve come to care for.

You have to tell them, though. You need to pick the right time, and break the news the right way. There is no guarantee they won’t react negatively. But if you approach the conversation as calmly as possible, while conveying your obvious sense of concern and even regret and remorse, you will know that you have given it your best shot.

Explain the facts about herpes, letting him/her know that this isn’t some rare disease, and that it’s very common today. Choose your words carefully so as not to create panic or fear, or make the situation seem hopeless. You can also let them know that there are medications, such as Valtrex and Acyclovir, that help reduce the frequency and severity of herpes outbreaks. These can be purchased easily and discreetly through online pharmacies.

You owe it to your partner to share the truth. Don’t let fear get in the way, and perhaps end up passing the condition to someone you care about. Do it today.